The Diary of a Virgin
So I think I should be celibate till I get married like I wish I would have listened and waited but now that I know what I know I will just stop and wait like sex is so ehhhh now like yea sex is great and all but its much better when you’re in love and you have true commitment. Not being with my…
Bought a new purity ring today…
I vow to myself, my future spouse and God that I will keep myself until I am married. :-)
I don’t fall in love with faces
I fall in love with souls, and hearts.
- Girl: I'm gonna be a teen mom omg yay!!! *150 people like this* .. * View all 70 comments*
- Me: I'm a virgin, where's my likes? *3 people like this*
- Me: Awesome.
:Virginity:
- is sexist
- is heteronormative
- commodifies sex
- commodifies young cis-het white women
- contributes to rape culture
- contributes to slut-shaming
- erases queer folk
- erases transfolk
- frames a woman’s worth as inversely proportional to the number of dicks that have…
Blokes…
My rant about the sex. (CAUTION: May be offensive)
Anonymous asked: Hey! I just found your blog, and I think it's really interesting what you guys stand for. My question is, why are you personally doing this? God? Parents? Or something else? Please enlighten me. (P.S. I'm not trying to provoke an argument or change your mind :) But since I've made the decision to be sexually active, I've been questioning myself as to whether this is the right choice, so I've been trying to consider other viewpoints.)
Chrissie: When I was 12 years old, I decided to remain pure until marriage. It wasn’t for religious reasons or parental pressure. Around that age is when I learned about the “birds and the bees”, and I didn’t want to sleep around with multiple people. I wanted to share myself with one person and one person only. I didn’t want unnecessary emotional and physical baggage especially wanting to eventually get married. When I turned 18 so many of my friends went sex crazy acting like it was just a hobby rather than something special. To me, sex is the closest 2 people can get emotionally and physically. Why share that close connection with anyone else than your future spouse?
David: Well unfortunately I am not a virgin anymore. I chose to begin living this lifestyle after having two long term relationships end due to cheating and I decided it wasn’t worth the potential problems all over again. I found that things were much less complicated when I didn’t have to worry about what might happen. I decided to help with the blog because my girlfriend helped me to realize that what I am doing is not easy and I could maybe help or inspire others to do the same. But this lifestyle is totally worth it.
Anonymous asked: Since entering college I've succumbed to the dangers of lust. I had a purity ring and it all meant so much to me at one time. Now my first year is coming to a close and I have realized my mistake. How can I go about getting back onto the right path? I know I can't exactly undo the sins I have committed, but is there anything that can be done to save my soul? I can't see how God can accept me now.
You are correct, you cannot undo what you have done in the past. But you need to remember that God will forgive. You have made the first and most difficult step of realizing what you did. You know what situations and environments caused those temptations, now stay away from them. You got burned, don’t go putting your hand back into the fire. Believe in yourself, pray for strength and forgive yourself too. Once you forgive yourself, you can be confident in yourself again and not feel ashamed. Your future spouse is out there, remember that. Be patient and strong, fight to remain pure for not only you and your future spouse, but for God. I hope we were able to help! If you have anymore questions or concerns don’t be afraid to ask. God bless!
askanything13 asked: I totally just looked at your recent post, and I didn't even have to read anymore I love it!(:
Thanks! :)
